What do you do when you are standing in a long queue and someone breaks the queue?
What do you do when there is a traffic jam, vehicles are all lined up but one smart four wheeler guy overtakes and goes in front, making a mockery of people who are patiently waiting in line.
Most of the times, i have taken liberty to get out of my comfort zone and question them. Ask them whether what they are doing is right?
Today, in Marathahalli to Munekolalu road, i did the same to a Maruti 800 car guy. It turned out that they were the local Reddy boys! They came back, hunted me and asked who am I to question them.
They were so pissed off for questioning them that they became violent with me. I was in their territory and they would not listen to me.
The goons managed to get more people on their side and bash me up. I had severe injury on my upper lip with a cut which bled. Left temporal region bruises and my head still aches.
My colleagues who were there on the conference call alerted the police. The police came, rounded them up, also put them in a jeep.
The people of Munnekolulu surrounded me and started pleading that I should not register an FIR at police station. They in fact brain washed me into not taking the matter to police station as all of them were young teenage boys and it was their first mistake.
I was torn between sending them to police station versus succumbing to the pleads of the local people saying that their future will get spoilt if they are taken to the police station.
Except for one who beat me, the others apologized. But did i see remorse on their face?
I don't think so. Will they not bash up any other person just for stopping them or questioning their activities?
Teenage brain is different, that is what i am reading now. It does not have the requisite neural connections and myelin sheath to make them responsible. But should that be an excuse to let them go off the hook?
Did they learn a lesson for assaulting me grievously?
I am still torn. As much as i strongly believe that to forgive it requires more strength, i question, who benefits by that.
Is my ego hurt? Should I not be questioning the wrong things which happen around me?
Should I not be getting out of my comfort zone?
What will be my reaction when someone is getting beaten on the road?
Well, why should i interfere, let me get on with my work.
We all are contributors to crime by tolerating it and silently suffering. We have lost the voice to question wrongdoings.
Is survival not more important? Much better to be silent and get on with our work.
What should we be teaching our children?
To do good, be right but be silent when you something wrong being done?
What do you do when there is a traffic jam, vehicles are all lined up but one smart four wheeler guy overtakes and goes in front, making a mockery of people who are patiently waiting in line.
Most of the times, i have taken liberty to get out of my comfort zone and question them. Ask them whether what they are doing is right?
Today, in Marathahalli to Munekolalu road, i did the same to a Maruti 800 car guy. It turned out that they were the local Reddy boys! They came back, hunted me and asked who am I to question them.
They were so pissed off for questioning them that they became violent with me. I was in their territory and they would not listen to me.
The goons managed to get more people on their side and bash me up. I had severe injury on my upper lip with a cut which bled. Left temporal region bruises and my head still aches.
My colleagues who were there on the conference call alerted the police. The police came, rounded them up, also put them in a jeep.
The people of Munnekolulu surrounded me and started pleading that I should not register an FIR at police station. They in fact brain washed me into not taking the matter to police station as all of them were young teenage boys and it was their first mistake.
I was torn between sending them to police station versus succumbing to the pleads of the local people saying that their future will get spoilt if they are taken to the police station.
Except for one who beat me, the others apologized. But did i see remorse on their face?
I don't think so. Will they not bash up any other person just for stopping them or questioning their activities?
Teenage brain is different, that is what i am reading now. It does not have the requisite neural connections and myelin sheath to make them responsible. But should that be an excuse to let them go off the hook?
Did they learn a lesson for assaulting me grievously?
I am still torn. As much as i strongly believe that to forgive it requires more strength, i question, who benefits by that.
Is my ego hurt? Should I not be questioning the wrong things which happen around me?
Should I not be getting out of my comfort zone?
What will be my reaction when someone is getting beaten on the road?
Well, why should i interfere, let me get on with my work.
We all are contributors to crime by tolerating it and silently suffering. We have lost the voice to question wrongdoings.
Is survival not more important? Much better to be silent and get on with our work.
What should we be teaching our children?
To do good, be right but be silent when you something wrong being done?